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The Fifty Shades Fad.

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Mankey

Right, now. I'm making this topic out of sheer anger and annoyance. I just want to see a discussion and debate about this whole situation.

The other day on my way home from the sandwich meet I was sat on a train. To my left was a poster. This poster said something similar to the following: "Spice up tomorrows commute, 'The Siren' and 'Switch' fifty times dirtier than fifty shades of grey! Buy now from WHSmith!" This annoyed me somewhat. I then arrive in London and decided I was thirsty and proceeded to get a drink. I go into WHSmith and at the entrance are copies and offers on other erotic novels telling me that all my "bedtime" reading is sorted.

This whole erotic novel craze is driving me nuts. Any other novel, fine. But I do not think it is appropriate in any way, shape or form to have erotic literature forced at me with any purchase in any bookstore or supermarket.

My girlfriend has a younger sister who is already asking her mum is she can read it, and she's 15. Now, yes, she may be old enough to understand that it's not real and that not all relationships are like that, its more to do with the principle.

Having seen excerpts is it REALLY suitable to be reading these things day to day and talking about it between each other? If a guy sat down on a train with a lads mag he'd no doubt get some dirty looks from women and make people uncomfortable. If someone sat down on a train reading an erotic scene from the novel depicting all sorts of S&M, how is that more suitable? Granted one is visual and anyone can see it, the other is all in your head. But what's worse? Seeing tits, or having some perverse creepy person getting a kick out of reading that stuff in public?

I don't know. It's just grating me that this sort of stuff is considered "literature" now, and people who previously NEVER read are reading this badly written perverse story based on an awful teen vampire fiction story. There are so many grammatical errors that I've seen in it, and I've not even read them.

Thoughts?
 
I agree with you totally, erotic books like this whole fifty shades series should be sold in the shops that usually sell things like that. I totally do not agree with those being sold in places like WHSmith as they are very younger children/family orientated. What annoys me most though is the fact that its everywhere you go.
 
I'm fine with them being sold, it's just where they're sold that upsets me. I do not like to walk into Waterstones and see "50 SHADES! FILTHIER NEW BOOKS YEAH!!!" Right by the front door or in the window. They should be as they used to be. Tucked away in their own section so the people who want to read that stuff can, without it being blurted in our faces!
 
Well there's a copy on my kitchin counter, no idea which one of my family owns it...

I find it annoying, just because from what I've heard it is terribly written. And is only popular because of its erotic nature.

I don't think it is massively suitable to be shoved down everyone's throat if this is the case.

At the same time there is nothing wrong with liking it, each there own. It's probably more annoying because its just a fad I don't understand or agree with... Just like My Little Pony

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Fredward said:
Well there's a copy on my kitchin counter, no idea which one of my family owns it...

I find it annoying, just because from what I've heard it is terribly written. And is only popular because of its erotic nature.

I don't think it is massively suitable to be shoved down everyone's throat if this is the case.

At the same time there is nothing wrong with liking it, each there own. It's probably more annoying because its just a fad I don't understand or agree with... Just like My Little Pony

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I do agree with what you say about the each there own, because we live in a society that all likes different things.

And I also think you are right on why it is poular, the whole erotic thing gets people wanting to read it.
 
Mr Oblivion said:
Fredward said:
Well there's a copy on my kitchin counter, no idea which one of my family owns it...

I find it annoying, just because from what I've heard it is terribly written. And is only popular because of its erotic nature.

I don't think it is massively suitable to be shoved down everyone's throat if this is the case.

At the same time there is nothing wrong with liking it, each there own. It's probably more annoying because its just a fad I don't understand or agree with... Just like My Little Pony

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I do agree with what you say about the each there own, because we live in a society that all likes different things.

And I also think you are right on why it is poular, the whole erotic thing gets people wanting to read it.

the only reason it's popular is because it's a twilight fan fic...
 
hobohippie95 said:
the only reason it's popular is because it's a twilight fan fic...

Or mainly because of the vast amount of influential [for the wrong reasons in many cases] celebrities that were spotted reading it?
 
I don't mind it being sold, and I don't mind it being sold in Bookstores like Waterstones and WH Smiths. What I mind is that it is being considered literature and the next genre that people should be reading.

I've had passages read to me, and it's dull. Incredibly dull. It's not erotic fiction, it's the insane rambling of a middle aged mother who fantasised about what sexual moves Bella and Edward will get up to. Like minded people on the Internet liked it, and by word of mouth they got it published. (seemingly followed a rushed copy/replace exercise to change the names...). What bothers me is that bookshops promoting this completely debases all the actual literature they do have inside. Sure, it's getting people reading, but not intellectually. It's the same as saying watching soaps is getting people into watching play-acting.

That said, I can see why it's come about. Western society seems to have taken a huge leap into sexualisation recently, and thats not a bad thing, but there does seem to be a competition to push the boundaries in what is acceptable and what is porn (Game of Thrones for instance)
 
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Says everything I want to say :(
 
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*Mary Whitehouse

In all seriousness Its just a fad for thoughs who arn't getting any, that badly written by a mother who doesn't really know anything about BDSM culture. I've read better errotic material thats well written on the internet, if your going to read errotic fiction atleast read a good example of it. To me its just a rip off of the 1986 Mickey Rourke and Kim Basinger film "9½ Weeks". Legitimate author's work blooming hard to get published and some of them don't make it that far. Then a book comes along that has the points I mentioned above and it sells over night, its such a slap around the face. Another thing I don't get is the fact errotic fiction has been around for years but only now its become a big deal. But hey ho I suppose if its going to give women an open mind to certain sexual Paraphilias (legal ones of course) and its consentual then I've got no problem with it.
 
Magrathea said:
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Says everything I want to say :(

That is genius!

Having read the books, I am not a fan at all. Honestly there are better/well written erotic novels out there. ::)
 
Having never read it, I don't exactly know what it's like, but what I have heard is that it's pretty pathetic. There are a few websites out there that do parody sections of the books, and they're written in a way that's just so laughable. I cannot understand how people are interested in this when, as has been pointed out, they can get better stuff online for next to nothing.
 
It's made me think I'm in the wrong job...I've always thought that I could make a decent living talking smut to dirty old men on the phone while I do my ironing in my pjs...erotic fiction here I come!
 
I couldn't read it! I started it, but it was so badly written that it drove me crazy, plus I was just bored. No idea how it was so popular.
 
Amy_D said:
I couldn't read it! I started it, but it was so badly written that it drove me crazy, plus I was just bored. No idea how it was so popular.

It is really poor and so repetitive, I found myself skipping through the sex parts to get to some real action, so to speak! Very predictable, unrealistic and cringeworthy. Like I said, I'm in the wrong job!
 
Pixie-Ro said:
Amy_D said:
I couldn't read it! I started it, but it was so badly written that it drove me crazy, plus I was just bored. No idea how it was so popular.

It is really poor and so repetitive, I found myself skipping through the sex parts to get to some real action, so to speak! Very predictable, unrealistic and cringeworthy. Like I said, I'm in the wrong job!

I was the same............poorly written. And I know some people who have had the same experiences.....or worse!
 
I opened it to a random page and became scared-This was not due to the sexual nature of it but because of how poorly written it is.

A revolting book that never should've been published, let alone become successful.
 
I read a chapter to see what all the fuss was about and I found it to be very poorly written and not even that arousing tbh. I've read more erotic stuff online!

As if it couldn't get any worse either. There's a Fifty Shades of Grey film 'coming' in 2015.
 
I'm sensing another band-wagon thread...

Personally, though, I've never read the book, and I'm never going to. It's purpose is not the be well written, but to arose women who can't be pleasured sexually and I can't really comment on how well that does that. I can, however, question how everyone can be so certain that the book is bad, having only read small snippets of it.
 
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