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Bronies And Furries - A Discussion

TBH, I don't fursuit. I'd get a pair of ears but that's about it. 2 reasons being
1- there are no furry conventions where I live
2- good quality ones cost quite a bit of money.

And if it's not affecting you in a direct way, why should you have a problem with it?
 
Neuros said:
TBH, I don't fursuit.

No idea what that means...

Neuros said:
And if it's not affecting you in a direct way, why should you have a problem with it?

I don't have a problem with adults who like to dress up as animals for fun, I just think it's cringy. That's having an opinion, not having a problem with it.
 
Adam said:
And anyway I never said creepy, I said cringey.

The demeanor that you put across seems to suggest otherwise.

And as stated by yourself...

Adam said:
If you're going to dress like an animal in your spare time do you not expect people to be creeped out by this?

I find it rather irksome that I should be labelled as a 'cringey' and that I 'creep people out' because I happen to find enjoyment out of something that they personally don't, and without giving an actual reason as to why they think so.

I'd be interested to know where this stigma of yours towards these communities comes from beyond 'I just find people who dress up cringey'.
 
I have to say, I do find sub-cultures or indeed mainstream cultures cringey if the participants lack any kind of self-awareness and take it too seriously... but then again I'm sure people feel exactly the same way about people who choose to spend their time talking at length about theme parks...

People in glass houses...
 
So basically you're saying I can't have an opinion on "furries", and you're saying anyone who doesn't like the idea of dressing up as an animal is wrong and is just me having a "stigma"?

::)
 
Meat Pie said:
I have to say, I do find sub-cultures or indeed mainstream cultures cringey if the participants lack any kind of self-awareness and take it too seriously... but then again I'm sure people feel exactly the same way about people who choose to spend their time talking at length about theme parks...

People in glass houses...

To that extent, I agree.

It's those who lack the self restraint and discretion that give any fandom a bad name. Unfortunately, that small number who are the most vocal about whatever it is soon become whatever a fandom becomes famous (or infamous for).

I for one like anthro art, and I also happen to enjoy watching episodes of my little pony, but I don't let that dictate who I am, nor do I preach it loudly and proudly, and insist that everybody else does. It's an interest, much like Alton Towers and roller coasters are. It's something that I enjoy doing or talking about in my spare time. I'll happily nerd out about those things with like-mindeds, and would be happy to explain to anybody curious what it's all about, but it's ultimately in the individual's own personal tastes as to what they enjoy.


Adam said:
So basically you're saying I can't have an opinion on "furries", and you're saying anyone who doesn't like the idea of dressing up as an animal is wrong and is just me having a "stigma"?

::)

You're allowed to, but you hadn't explained why. I see now that it's because you're uncomfortable with the the idea of dressing up... But is that basis alone enough to have this whole 'people get creeped out by others who enjoy dressing up' idea?
 
Some people do find it creepy. Doesn't mean I'm saying I'm one of those people does it?
 
Very well, and that's ok. However that wasn't made too clear (for me at least) in what it was you were saying.
 
Just a small reminder that personal attacks are not permitted, no lines have been crossed yet but these sort of topics have a habit of getting argumental

Many thanks
 
Meat Pie said:
I have to say, I do find sub-cultures or indeed mainstream cultures cringey if the participants lack any kind of self-awareness and take it too seriously... but then again I'm sure people feel exactly the same way about people who choose to spend their time talking at length about theme parks...

People in glass houses...

Hahah Meaty: Guaranteed to point the elephant out in the room ;D

BigAl said:
Neuros said:
TheMan said:
As for "Furries"? :eek: ....not commenting ;D
See, my question is why aren't you commenting? Is it because you think it's a sexual thing? (Which it isn't)
See, most hate on fandoms is caused just by lack of knowledge and/or what people have been told, and if people actually went and did some research they'd find out much more credible information.

Just from a quick look on Wikipedia (argh, noooo, Wikipedia):
Sexual attraction to furry characters is a polarized issue within the fandom; in one survey with 4300 furry respondents, 37% answered that sexual attraction is important in their furry activities, 38% were ambivalent, and 24% answered that it has little or nothing to do with their furry activities.[32] In a different online survey, 33% of furry respondents answered that they have a "significant sexual interest in furry", another 46% stated they have a "minor sexual interest in furry", and the remaining 21% stated they have a "non-sexual interest in furry". The survey specifically avoided adult-oriented websites to prevent bias.

:eek: My comment was some innocent innuendo, "Carry on" style. I didn't expect it to be taken so seriously to be honest. I thought that would be obvious given my live and let live attitude. Perhaps a less defensive pose would result in more understanding from people who haven't encountered it before.

What I didn't expect though, was what Al found.

I genuinely don't have an interest in this, each to their own, but if that for some reason involves sexual attraction surrounding furry characters? I confess that worries me slightly.

Anyway, mine was an innocent comment of mild opinion, I shall avoid the debate further.
 
Eh, each to their own, if you like dressing up as an animal or watching MLP, then do it. I'm 18, and one of my favourite things to do is get dressed up at Halloween. Neither fandoms are shoving their views and opinions down anyone's throats, they're not hurting anyone, so let them be. People cos play, I think its really creative, and I also think its great that people have something to be so passionate about, if it makes someone happy, is anyone in the place to criticize it?
 
I'm constantly disappointed by the Furries who proclaim that it's alljust a bit of harmless / innocent fun. Once they all accept that it’s a secret society of sheer filth then I’ll sign up.
 
Nothing wrong with Bronies, completely normal.


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I've not read all of every post in this topic but MP seems to be talking sense.

Personally I find anything taken that far a bit weird, overly serious and lacking in self-awareness etc, but who am I to judge? And as long as it's (or at least the more hardcore stuff) kept private and no one is harmed against their will, people are welcome to whatever lifestyle, fetish or whatever they want. And fair play, it must take guts and a lot of self-acceptance to get that far into something so looked down on by mainstream society.
 
Novas said:
Jables said:
Nothing wrong with Bronies, completely normal.


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Each to their own...except this guy. This guy should be sectioned.

there is somthing wrong with this guy. somthing very very wrong



i have not been through every post in the topic but i must say that i have no problem with either of these fandoms. though wierd in there way MLP:FIM is very well written, cast and animated and is just enjoyable on many levels. and as for furries, i have always wanted my own full custom fur suit.

its just the radicals that are the problem in all aspects of anything but without them would there really be any sort of over the topness anywhere? i personally find japanise cosplay abit wierd and odd
 
I myself have no problem with Bronies or Furries either, whatever floats your boat I guess..
Just me trying to poke fun out of things again xD.
 
Jables said:
I myself have no problem with Bronies or Furries either, whatever floats your boat I guess..
Just me trying to poke fun out of things again xD.
Oh thank god, I thought you were actually being serious then.
 
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