Respectfully, there are people of all ages on this forum without children, right across the age range on this particular forum.
I am sure there are, I was just highlighting there is a member base here who are young and do not yet have children.
Anyway, I feel you are both missing the point here -
Because of the state of the country, education, healthcare, dentistry are all a necessity, not a luxury. People (who can afford it) are pushed into paying for it rather than having to rely on the state. And those who do pay extra for these are in a way already helping the state by reducing the number of kids going to overcrowded state schools, not being on NHS waiting lists and not using up the scarce number of NHS dental appointments. You only have to see the news reports of people pulling their own teeth out with pliars because they cant get a dentist to realise how bad the situation is.
I don't think continuing down this path does society any favours in the long term.
I agree, but at the moment I don't see any other option until things improve in the country. Once I can get a decent NHS dentist where I live and where I can get an appointment in a short timeframe then i'll stop paying private, but until then, its a necessary that I do. Once NHS waiting lists come down and I can get an appointment in a reasonable timeframe, then i'll stop paying private. Again, until the country is in a better place, its necessary that I do.
But in the perfect world, we wouldn't need to be paying additional for these things - the facilities in the country should be good enough, as you have highlighted with the schools in Finland.
Edit : Just pop this in here - i'm sure this significant rise in people using private healthcare isnt because they see it as a luxury, but more as a necessity due to the NHS being unable to provide the care they need.
This chart shows the share of people in the UK that are paying for private health insurance.
www.statista.com
Lets also not forget the number of people who are paying for treatment without insurance because the NHS waiting time is too long. Many of whom have used up savings they have built up rather then be in agony for up to 2 years.