You cannot dictate or set out what can / cannot, should / should not be discussed. It's a public Forum. By definition, that means a place we can all share opinions, thoughts and ideas, so long as they are legal.
These guys are in the public eye, like it or not. Some have gone public with EVERYTHING so you can hardly expect the forum to remain mute on topics regarding them.
I suggest you read my post again. What I said was who are we to criticize these people or demand the ride to reopen? I didn't say you couldn't, but doing so just shows how we put a bit of metal over the lives of people severely affected by riding it. But hey if you, or others want to go on and make comments about the victims, feel free, no one is stopping you, but it does come across as highly insensitive.
As for how long it stays closed, and if it stays closed out of respect, only Towers and HSE can make that decision. Not us, not the victims, no one. HSE will have the first say in whether they lift the probation or not, and Towers will open the ride afterwards when they feel the time is right to do so.
You don't think keeping it closed to ensure it never happens again isn't respectful? Maybe respect is the wrong word here, but Towers will do everything (with the HSE) to ensure all measures are in place to stop such an accident ever happening again yes, and it should remain closed until it can feel reassured it can do this. If anything, it owes the victims that much to ensure no one else goes through what they have. Is that respect? Maybe, maybe not.....