Every one has insecurities, some of my have resurfaced recently with whats been going on in my life. I wont actually go in to what they are because I dont want to tell you lot
Mine are slowly starting to go again which is good because it really did seem to take up 100% of my thoughts.
Its annoying that it seems to be a part of everyday life having insecurities.
But Fredward (and anyone else that has the problem of asking women out), just ask! Dont worry about them saying no, just ask. I regret not asking a few women out. I regret that more than I regret asking out the women I did and getting turned down.
I think one thing you will find on here is that women are just as insecure as men about the looks and how attractive they feel.
I find my wife one of the most attractive women I have even seen (I have to say this it says so in the contract
) But she still is insecure about how she looks and things like that. Sadly its just natural to feel bad about yourself.
Look at the post from Rowe ^^ Now I think (not trying to be creepy here Rowe
) that she is a very attractive woman, I dont see the issues that she has and I think its a bit odd she feels like that. But everyone seems to feel like that at some point of the lives.
So dont worry about asking a girl out, if she is a normal girl she will be flattered just to be asked! Its always good when someone pays attention to you.