I've recently lead a group of normies/civilians to both EP, in summer, and Phantasialand, for Wintertraum. Stayed on a site at both, Bell Rock and Charles Lindbergh respectively, and am pleased to say that we have fresh converts....
Reflecting a lot of comments up thread, EP was the clear favourite in terms of an all-round experience, especially the hotels and the general atmosphere, as well as the scale to explore and lark around in.
Still, one of my friends in particular couldn't get over how good the major rides were at Phantasialand, and felt that only Wodan came close to Taron, FLY and even Colorado Adventure. However, I did offer the rebuttal that we had the advantage of being in a very quiet park during the most atmospheric time of year, during which Phantasialand create the space and amenities to simply hang out and drink. Those serious bangers at Phantasialand are not as fun when you're waiting over an hour for each, and shuffled around like sardines marinated in school group sweat while inbetween.
Delighted to report that we were confronted with the true logic and spirit of Phantasialand at Rutmor's Tavern, when, having ordered three individual plates of goulash, equivalent litres of beer and the premium cheese board, my friend took the liberty to enquire as to whether we could, just possibly, order a few pickles on a separate small plate... We might have had more luck nipping in to Guest Services and asking them to knock the temperature up a few notches and open River Quest for an hour.