imanautie
TS Member
The thing is I've had it happen when people default to asking me when I'm with a wheelchair user even when they start the interaction....Depends on the situation, if it’s a transient interaction like a pass being presented then you talk to the person presenting the pass. If you are talking about access issues regarding a persons disability then you talk to the person with the disability not their carer.
It’s human nature to direct your conversation to the person doing the talking but it’s respectful in talking to disabled persons and their carers to talk to the disabled person directly. It’s a hard habit to break though.