I'm still fairly new here, so I don't want to to step on anyone's toes. However I have seen this type of thread on other forums. It may be fairly unusual on this type of forum, but I would like go think that we all have somewhere to go if we need to. As Sazzle said a problem shared is often a problem halved, no matter what the issue may be. I have made some amazing friends on various forums over the years and I would like to think that this one will be the same.