I hope you don't mind me asking (say stop if we are too personal), but is it because you can go to the surgery more easily, but Jess is more vulnerable and needs a home visit from a nurse?
It's worth asking why this is the case while you have the vaccine. It could be that there's a mistake in the system and while they have you as a registered carer Jess has somehow been missed off the vulnerable list. I imagine the list of carers is easier to track than the hundreds of disabilitys that are considered vulnerable.
Or as jon81uk said maybe it's just easier to vaccinate people that can travel ahead of those that can't. I know people in care homes are lagging behind for this reason as it's a longer process to vaccinate them.
If you re-read my last post (the one that @jon81uk quote) I was questioning the fact that they have called me in as a unpaid carer (group 6). I thought that we still have group 4 and then 5 to do first? Saying that, we could be ahead here in Norfolk as it was on the News today that 1/4 of adults in Norfolk have now received the vaccine. The online calculator is estimating the earliest that unpaid carer would be the end of this month for first Jab. Next week would make me two weeks early, so if Norfolk is ahead, it could be possible.
As for Jess not yet receiving the Jab, it could a number of things from being house bound to not quiet meeting the strict criteria for having the jab this moment in time. They do go by age first with each group. Even if you have underlying health problems, again age is also a contributing factor and the older person will always be prioritised above the younger one in each priority group regardless of health problems. We will contact our GP if they haven't called upon Jess by the end of group 6