@bluesonichd I personally (if you haven't already) would send them an email followed by a hard copy letter of complaint (signed for). This way you have a record of the complaint. They may argue the fact that you ended up staying on site in another friends lodge which might go against their fire regulations.
We were't 100% happy with our stay either.
We booked an accessible lodge back in April (like you it was change as I previously booked the previous week before the resort change the firework date).
The Saturday before our stay, I was out and I came home to an answerphone message asking if we needed an accessible lodge and if we could use a normal one
I phoned them back as soon as I could and all that I got was an answer machine and I left a message.
When I arrived Friday Morning, I was told that they had move us to a normal lodge. I explained that Jess is non weight bearing and fully wheelchair bound so we need an accessible room. They kindly allocated us an accessible room.
I left our car in the disable bay outside the reception which we normally do, we can park next to the lodge, but we have to move the car on the morning of the departure day plus there it a lot of faffing around in the morning trying to get someone to unlock the bollard that prevents cars from going in and out of the Enchanted village.
Friday night I returned back to the car to remove our luggage to put into our room and there were a notice slapped on the car asking us to move the car to one of the main car park. Our's wasn't the only car with a notice on outside the reception. I went into the reception and asked them about the notice and I was told, if you have a blue badge displayed, we shouldn't have got a notice as we are allowed to park there for the duration of our stay.
I returned home early hours of this morning to the sound of my home answer phone bleeping, there was a message from the Enchanted village reception asking me to remove our car ASAP from where it was as it was a drop of area only. What's the point in phoning my home number to remove my car when I'm away at the resort
Other than that, we had a great weekend