Hi all,
I had no idea where to put this topic, but this seemed a possible good place as I am looking for some serious advice!
Our situation is this:
My man and I have been together for nearly 2 years and have been living together since Christmas last year. He has children with an ex who is a nightmare to say the least!
His dad lives 5 doors up from us, in total cahoots with the "ex" and goes out on trips and meals with her and the kids often. We decided not to be part of this "family weirdness" becuase they have been divorced 5 years and quite honestly dont need to be doing stupid little meals together.
Basically my man and his ex have shared custody so it works out that every other weekend we have the children with odd days inbetween.
However the ex never really has the children and maintains she is "working". So the kids are now 5 doors up, and constantly interfering in our weekends off, just coming round unexpected and we arent getting a break!
Weve had two major bust ups with his dad and all of our requests to have a break, or phone before you come round pleas have fallen on deaf ears. His dad used to just "walk in" when I first moved in which i found bloody wrong! Especially as we could be "busy" or having a row?! They then got nasty because we started locking the door??!
We are looking to move but its not as easy as it sounds what with money, location etc..
So I am looking for any advice someone may be able to give. Its so hard living so close when our privacy is not respected and a lot of the time when I get home the ex's car is parked outside!
Help anyone pleeeeaasssseeee...
I had no idea where to put this topic, but this seemed a possible good place as I am looking for some serious advice!
Our situation is this:
My man and I have been together for nearly 2 years and have been living together since Christmas last year. He has children with an ex who is a nightmare to say the least!
His dad lives 5 doors up from us, in total cahoots with the "ex" and goes out on trips and meals with her and the kids often. We decided not to be part of this "family weirdness" becuase they have been divorced 5 years and quite honestly dont need to be doing stupid little meals together.
Basically my man and his ex have shared custody so it works out that every other weekend we have the children with odd days inbetween.
However the ex never really has the children and maintains she is "working". So the kids are now 5 doors up, and constantly interfering in our weekends off, just coming round unexpected and we arent getting a break!
Weve had two major bust ups with his dad and all of our requests to have a break, or phone before you come round pleas have fallen on deaf ears. His dad used to just "walk in" when I first moved in which i found bloody wrong! Especially as we could be "busy" or having a row?! They then got nasty because we started locking the door??!
We are looking to move but its not as easy as it sounds what with money, location etc..
So I am looking for any advice someone may be able to give. Its so hard living so close when our privacy is not respected and a lot of the time when I get home the ex's car is parked outside!
Help anyone pleeeeaasssseeee...