I think it's only fair that I should answer this and fairly as possible as it seems like a bit of a dig at me.
First of all my whole point wasnt to attack anyone. I was actually sympathising for the people who genuinely need to use this pass and made that perfectly clear in my post. My 'attack' if there was one at all was on the selfish ones who clearly don't really need it but will use it anyway because it's basically free fastpass which is almost certainly happening.
I know someone in my extended family who has been supposedly diagnosed with ADHD. They weren't doing well in school and my relative (Cousin) thought something was up with him and had him checked out. True enough he's since been diagnosed with ADHD. Funny enough though this same child (my second cousin), has no issues with being on his Xbox for 3-4 hours at a time as I have witnessed it first hand on more than one occasion. Funny that, eh? Funny how selective that ADHD can be when it's something you don't like doing, eh? This is my own family too so doesn't give me any joy admitting that. I think it's rather sad actually.
I know ADHD is real. Some people suffer terribly from it I'm sure and I feel for them I do. I don't mean to belittle the ones who do and it upsets me to think people think I am.
I do however believe it's become a bit of a cop out for some though and an excuse for laziness from parents and in some cases teachers. We all learn, as children and adults, in totally different ways. Differentiation is required to have a full class of children engaged in something as some people learn visually and some people learn by having a go themselves. This doesn't mean that everyone who isn't concentrating has ADHD. It might with a select few but with others it will simply mean they just haven't found a way to get the message though yet.
Finally I want to say I think the disabled are treated horrendously in this country by a number of people and none more so than the current government. I certainly wouldn't be removing help and funding for disabled people if I was in Number 10. I'd offer a lot more help than they currently get.
My main reasoning for using your post as an example was because it was one of the more recent ones that kind of showed an ignorance towards mental health disabilities.
The explanation for it is still a bit mergh if I'm honest. Your second cousin (like I think most kids these days) finds focusing on gaming far easier than school and the like. The rise of technology I think is the result of this moreso and a lot of parents use tablets/laptops/mobiles to keep kids entertained rather than other activities. More often than not its easier but does potentially cause further problems, the likes of Cocomelon as a show causes such overstimulation for kids for example.
Kids (and adults) find different things more comforting than others. And I think nowadays we are far more knowledgeable about these issues (friend of mine has 3 year old twins who have been flagged up due to development being slower than they should be, and their at home behaviours show flags for being within the spectrum), which means that the numbers go up considerably as we are catching these and diagnosing.
As long as the parents believe that something is up. Wife's sister has 3 kids and the eldest is awaiting the diagnosis meeting but the ex husband is one of those sorts who doesn't really believe in it (he's also an awful human being but that's beside the point).
I think that saying that ADHD is a cop out for some belittles the situation. Unfortunately given the way in which schools have been cut to ribbons budget wise means that teachers cannot give the right focus for those on the bottom end. However this is more political conversation than relevant to the topic.
Parental wise there are probably some that drive towards it (abuse of the system) but do those people actually get an official diagnosis out of it? If they don't then going forwards they won't qualify for RAP under the new rules coming in.
I get that you're not going full on about it, but there's some weird ignorance going on with the whole "ADHD doesn't affect him when playing games" and calling it a cop out diagnosis for lazy patents/teachers.
Think at the end if the day a lot of the issues regarding neuro divergence is that everyone deals with it differently. Clearly some on here can mask enough to survive the day out. Others can't do this, and in everyday life there are ways to tackle it (online shopping deliveries, travelling at quieter times, etc), this isn't an option for theme parks, especially if you work and have to go on a weekend or take a day off. Or you need someone to go with or do things for you. It cannot be generalised it just because one person deals with their disability better than another, it's not a competition (and my wife gets this often from her extended family, because they're a bit dreadful) and shouldn't be treated as such.
If you can mask yourself enough to queue in the main queue, we'll done. But not everyone can do that.
As for non-ambulant RAP users who rely on RAP for mobility-related reasons; I think their reason for using it is because the actual queue lines are a rather different ballgame to the public paths. Many of the queue lines have tight corners and steps, which someone in a wheelchair (for instance) might not be able to negotiate. The regular public footpaths don’t have these.
Saw this and laughed. As someone who pushes a wheelchair around regularly in public, quite often footpaths are not designed for wheelchairs and more often than not make areas really difficult to travel around. Add in ignorance of people (say parking in front of dropped kerbs or parking in blue badge spots) and its an absolute nightmare.