I don't think I ever asked, why did you (all) vote remain?
For me, it's not that I am/was a Europhile, far from it. I am deeply critical about aspects of the European Union and how it operates, but on balance, leaving just didn't seem to be a solution to anything. Plus, the blank cheque approach of the referendum seemed unwise - but it didn't strike me until years later, just how unwise it was. Telling the government that I wanted them to do something, without any understanding how and when they were going to do it, as a means to what end etc.
I think in a lot of ways, the EU had become a scapegoat for the failure of successive governments to get a handle on things entirely within their control. For example, public services and housing are always brought up as a reason why freedom of movement is a bad idea - that you can't meet the demand that the system creates, but freedom of movement has been championed by successive governments throughout my lifetime, including the Cameron administration -
whilst they were cutting public services to the bone,
whilst championing a recovering economy driven by immigrant labour.
I thought Brexit would be a huge distraction because it was never going to be a simple process. Again, I am not sure I thought it would become as big a distraction as it has been - but we've essentially had no domestic agenda for over three years, which has only exacerbated the issues that created a desire for Brexit in the first place. Town, cities, the country and its services have been left even further behind.
Looking ahead, the world powers are going to be continental sized in both population and economic terms. China, India, the US, the EU, Brazil etc. Being outside of one of those as an island nation of 60+ million people doesn't seem to be the way to go, for me. If we want to 'go global', doing so on our own seems counterproductive and almost certainly more difficult than doing it was part of a larger group.
I think the EU affords a huge number of opportunities, which future generations will miss out on - I think that's a shame. Big things like Erasmus, a great university scheme, to small things like having the ability to chuck the dog in the car and head to France on her pet passport and using your phone for nothing when you're there. All those things are done through cooperation - I applaud them and would like to have seen us do more, because we're so geographically close - connected by a tunnel, at the end of the day.
I am fortunate in lots of ways. Some people are way less fortunate, but you'd really struggle to convince me that our leaving of the EU will help them, at all. I thought that before the referendum and I still think that now.
I think some of the biggest reasons people had for voting Brexit will go undelivered and/or unchanged. Particularly with immigration - we have low unemployment, we're not going to close the doors and create a labour shortage. The way we live as a nation demands a lot of cab drivers, restaurant workers, etc etc. "But we'll be able to choose who comes in" is the frequent retort. I guess we will - if the 'we' is an unelected Whitehall official. Freedom of movement is largely self regulating, if there were no jobs, people wouldn't come, if people were coming and there were no jobs, we'd have high unemployment.
BUT with all that said... As I tried to explain in the other thread, I am accepting of the fact that my side lost. I think it's a mistake, but it's an action we're clearly going to take so I'm not going to mope about it, we've got to make it work irrespective of how we all voted.