Towers freak said:Been much happier since I changed my out look on life a few days ago. Also realising that I had a problem with my attitude when it came to "Nice Guy Syndrome".
After reading afew articals and realising I wasn't as "Nice" as I thought I'm going to change my outlook on things and become a better person and stop blaming the world for my problems and realise I was the one who had the problem and not the other way round. I'm going to change for myself and not for the wrong reason of doing it to become more desirable etc. My Views on Love have changed and I now realised I shouldn't think of love as an achivement and that It's not the only way to be happy in life, it's a Privilage not a right. I now also understand I shouldn't want love because it will make me feel better as it would be the same as using a woman for my own personal gain and satisfaction.
I've also learnt to stop beliving that just because I'm a "nice" person that I should be owed something more than anyone else. If I genuinely "Like" someone. I need to let them know as soon as I can and not become there friend in the hope for a relationship further down the line, this comes across as me using them to get what I ultimatly want.
I need to become confident, have more Self Respect,Look after myself better and stop feeling sorry for myself. I'm going to do this for myself and life will become better, I'll ultimatly feel happier for it, which after my realisation I had the promblem and need to fix it, I have done.
Adam said:I've decided that, not long after uni, I'm going ahead with my plans to immigrate to Spain.
Novas said:Adam said:I've decided that, not long after uni, I'm going ahead with my plans to immigrate to Spain.
Cool, where abouts you thinking of going? and what's the plan for work? Isn't paid employment a dirty word over there at the moment...
Adam said:Novas said:Adam said:I've decided that, not long after uni, I'm going ahead with my plans to immigrate to Spain.
Cool, where abouts you thinking of going? and what's the plan for work? Isn't paid employment a dirty word over there at the moment...
I want to either work in a management position for some sort of decent company (Doing a degree in management at uni) or if that fails at first then finding a decent job working at hotel for a few years (Till I could open my own bar or something like that) won't be too hard considering I can speak English & Spanish, and being bilingual is always a good thing for that sort of stuff.
As for where I want to live, I'd love to live in either Valencia or Barcelona, but living in a major tourist destination like Alicante or Majorca would probably be a safer bet if I went for a tourist related job.
Viva Espana
