I believe if the old people want to go out. Break the rules. Let them.
It’s their life. They’ve lived long enough to know how they want to live it.
That’s fine as long as they don’t expect me to be financially ruined as a result of it.
We stay in to protect them and it seems they don’t care, they know best.
My mother in law is the worst example, she doesn’t give two hoots, not that I would ever cross the mother in law and tell her obviously.....